A post at Mockingbird by Duo Dickenson that contains phrase after phrase that I turn over and over in my mind.

But later, for many of us, maybe most, who have defined ourselves not by love but by demonstrating an ability to be lovable, failure is guaranteed. If perfection is your standard of lovability, you are doomed to an unloved life.
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We are judged by everything we are given. Every paycheck, every gift, every look from a stranger conveys more than the moment (but, also, is completely confined to it).
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If the world can reveal our worth or confirm our legitimacy or celebrate our value, it can also display our terminal inability to perform. And it is terminal.

Read Who You Are You When You Don’t Win at Mockingbird.

This piece of information about how to move the cursor on iPhones when composing messages and the like has been doing the rounds.

I didn’t know. I was using my finger directly on the cursor.

My mind was a little bit blown, so for those who also don’t know, here you go.

Having been driven to BNE airport by our niece at an unbelievably early hour, the next section of our trip home also involves having someone else drive.

In three hours or so I’ll be back behind the wheel in Adelaide.

God willing, I won’t be back until February.

(I wonder if the person I saw buying a glass of red wine in the food court thought it was 5.30pm and not 5.30am. Queensland – where it’s ALWAYS beer o’clock.)

Thanks to my wife’s brother for the loan of his car this past week. It helps that he’s away working at the moment, but one achievement is that we made it to the end of his not-quite-infinite playlist.