Still reading Faith, Hope, And Carnage. Nick Cave describes the online interactions he has through his website and the Red Hand Files. He mentions a letter from a woman named Tiffany who included a poem she wrote. It’s breathtaking. young death when young death shines a flash on your 2am the cop says takes the …

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I conducted funerals during the COVID restrictions. We had a family funeral during the later stages of COVID restrictions. One of the most draining parts of a wretched two weeks was curating a list of 125 names that were coming to the funeral, which had to be provided to the funeral directors. Of all the …

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There’s a lot of silence in times of grief. We lack words to express what we feel. We lack the capacity to bear what the grieving express. I think living with grief gives a context in which a language to express feeling, and an ability to hear what the grieving say, can develop. If we …

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