I’m fond of saying that you’re where you are because that’s the result of the choices you’ve been making. Except for me. My state has nothing to do with my choices. I’m pretty sure.
I’m fond of saying that you’re where you are because that’s the result of the choices you’ve been making. Except for me. My state has nothing to do with my choices. I’m pretty sure.
For in grief nothing ‘stays put’. One keeps on emerging from a phase, but it always recurs. Round and round. Everything repeats. Am I going in circles, or dare I hope I am on a spiral? But if a spiral, am I going up or down it? How often — will it be for always? …
Some weeks work and coping look about the same. This week in particular.
It may not be never there, but that doesn’t mean it’s something that needs to be fixed. From Hello Grief by Alessandra Olanow.