Chuck Lawless describes ten sources of pastoral heartache.
All the pastors I know consistently express these griefs as a part of their lives. It’s not something to pity, nor are these situations unknown to others, but our calling demands that we can’t avoid circumstances such as these.
We’re invested in people’s lives, the ups and the downs (the sideways and the marking time).
It is by no means an exhaustive list.
- We mourn when marriages fall apart.
- We hurt when young people make decisions that lead to trouble.
- We occasionally beat ourselves up when our sermon wasn’t nearly as strong as we thought it would be.
- We sometimes grieve the sin of others more than they do.
- We ache when our church must carry out church discipline.
- We struggle when the churches we lead aren’t growing.
- We sometimes hurt alone when we see the loneliness and struggles of our families.
- We quietly grieve funerals for persons who showed no evidence of Christian conversion.
- We wrestle with loneliness when we don’t know how to develop strong friendships.
- We often feel guilty even expressing any of these thoughts.
Read Lawless’ post for brief explanations of each of these.