Brian Croft writes about the best and most balanced means by which a wife can support her husband in his pastoral work.

 Regardless the temperament of a pastor and the type of church he serves, most of us would agree that every church will have a wide spectrum of affection for their pastor.  Every church to some degree has church members who view their pastor with rose-colored glasses, while others barely tolerate their existence and stay at the church despite him.  this causes pastors often to seek affirmation and encouragement by surrounding themselves with those who think they are the greatest preacher, most compassionate counselor, and strongest leader, while avoiding those who have less enduring thoughts of them.
This has led to what I think is a good, helpful, and healthy role for our wives to play in our lives as pastors while facing such a wide variety of affection to sift through among our people. A pastor’s wife should always be…
Supportive, but unimpressed… Read More

via Practical Shepherding

Of course, ladies, if he really does well, you can tell him.

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