The thought that grief is something you live with, rather than something you recover from – move on from – are at danger of slipping back into – are not processing in a healthy way, is a comforting thought in itself. From It’s OK That You’re Not OK. We are changed by our new realities. …

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Reading and reflecting is part of what I do. Reading is also something that I’ve loved doing all my life. It’s been a lot harder. And easier to avoid. I find fiction is a way back into reading. From It’s OK That You’re Not OK. I hear the same thing from just about everyone in …

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I simply accepted the idea of the stages of grief. Megan Devine points out that the human tendency toward pragmatic systemisation as a method of control takes what began as an interesting set of observations that sought to support people and turns them into a rigid methodology into which every person and every circumstance are …

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